I must confess he is just one in a million husband. my husband was a divorcee before I married him he has two boys with his ex wife (12 and 14years ) He had them at his early 30s with his girlfriend ( now ex wife ) the divorce 3,years after the got married because of financial problems and emotional abuse from his ex becuse wasn't doing anything then.
5 years after the divorce decided to come back to Nigeria from oversees the little business he established thats how God open door for him.The kids do spend holidays with us here , once or twice for 6 weeks in a year, he pays alimony to his ex every month, their school fees, as law instructed,their flight tickets, whatever the children needs in fact he doesn't say No to them no matter how expensive that might be even, I can proudly say his been a good father to his kids and their mother in all ramification for years of their divorce and even now.
The problem now is since we got married his ex is no longer comfortable, she keeps giving one problem or the other, demanding money anyhow , threatening him with court, and my husband seems to be afraid of her.he will always say he doesn't want to loose his kids.
Right now things are no longer the way it was before 1$=#500 business is no longer moving well,things are very hard. We have added responsibilities. she suppose to be the one helping us
😅😅😅😅and am even the one it is affecting most because am doing managing some times i deny myself some comfort just to save money.Am out of work now cause I have a problem even the little savings is almost finish.
Ok apart from that . I tried to be the mother for my sons but it seems they don't like me, they are not comfortable with they don't eat my food husband. once they come it will be restaurant all the time. and I don't like it is not economical and I will end up wasting my food. They stay all through the day without helping me a house chores not even cleaning there own room or washing their clothes and I will end of doing all of them even in my condition. my husband is a busy man and hardly comes back early.
Ok, I tried to communicate to him about the issue, I was surprised what he told me,he said they are just kids that I should pamper them and take them as my own kids, I was mad like seriously even my own children I can't accept such behaviour from any but since they are my stepchildren Africans has a way of stereotyping stepmothers as a bad woman so I kept my cool for peace to remain but since I found out my husband is using his first son as his next of kin while I use him as mine .
Am wondering I don't know if is something I should be worried about. or is it that he doesn't trust me enough. and I have been good to him. He even say it all time. Pls Admin help me. Am getting worried.
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