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I am having a steamy affair with an old friend but I’m worried that our friends-with-benefits relationship is heading into dangerous territory.
I am 32 and have been married for five years. My husband is 34 — he’s a good guy but I realise now we’ve never been right for one another sexually.
I bumped into this old friend at a charity quiz night six months ago. We ended up in bed together when we were in our teens, but it was at a party and we’d both been drinking. It didn’t lead to anything.
I hadn’t seen him for a while even though we’ve always been close. He is 33 now, looked great and was really pleased to see me. We had a chat and he suggested we meet for a coffee sometime.
I know he isn’t really a relationship type of guy but he texted a few days later to ask if we could have that coffee. We arranged to meet in town and I went back to his flat as he was dying to show me where he was living.
We soon began kissing. I was hesitant at first because I love my husband and knew what I was doing was wrong but he started undressing me. It wasn’t long before we were having amazing sex in his bed. This has happened a few times now. After our hook-ups I don’t hear from him, even if I message him, until a few weeks have passed and then he gets in touch.
I can only think he’s trying to distance himself from me. I have never known him to sleep with a woman more than once so I can’t understand why he keeps coming back to me.
The last time we hooked up it was more affectionate and there was more kissing and cuddling. I realise now I should never have married my husband.
He is a lovely man but he’s not right for me and I am going to end my marriage at some point. But I am not sure if I’m ready for the storm when he realises there’s another man involved.
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